Monday, December 29, 2008
Last week of December
Yesterday, we spent a few hours with Sharon and family. Tino had Giovanna over and it was nice to visit with her. When Sharon's dad came in, it was heart-breaking to see how desolate and lost he appeared. He drank two glasses of beer and it didn't really seem to change anything... well, how can it? The service is set for Saturday since Karen is flying in on Friday. The older cousins will rally together and get alot of the arrangements taken care of. Stacey is organizing a Team Francine for Jan 25 - Walk for Memories and I got Darcy and I registered for that. I will try and let people at work know that I am doing the walk for Sharon's mum and if they feel they want to support it, it's a good way of doing so. Anyway, on the outside, Sharon seems fine but Tino told me that she hasn't had her meltdown yet and he is sure it will be coming. She has a ton of support and she is very fortunate for that.
This afternoon, I finally took the opportunity to stop by and visit Kari. Always worried if she is not feeling well or sleeping...just took a chance and called to say I would come by in an hour. I stopped at this little florist owned by a petite chinese lady and got a simple bunch of flowers...well I liked the pink stargazer lillies and carnations and cedar in it anyway. Ray was busy cooking dinner. We had a couple of drinks and it was great to see her...she really had quite a harrowing experience and luckily everything worked out...it could have been fatally bad. She is a very lucky girl! We didn't stay too long so that she could eat and rest.
So, its a very chilly night...oops here's Chrissy...she drove her car today for the first time in weeks and now she is back saying that its treacherous out there and if Darcy can drive her to work at 6am tomorrow morning...he has been her driver for the past 2 weeks it seems! Glad that she knows when its dangerous to be on the road!!!
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Messy slush
Darcy and I were craving something different to eat like a Moderne Burger on Broadway...Darcy just wanted to drive around in the slush I think. The burger and fries were very good and hit the spot after having had turkey etc.The roads were a mess with huge puddles everywhere. But the worst was just coming into our complex. We were stuck for 15 minutes just trying to get in. We would make sure we go as far to the side and hoped everyone would cooperate and take turns but of course not everyone was so obliging so it caused a bit of a mexican stand-off ahead of us. With the 4-wheel drive we were going up the snow banks to accomodate everyone. After that frustration, we came home to find out that Speedo had an accident so I was on clean up duty..YUCK!!! Sheldon and Chrissy are trying to dig out her car from under all the piles of snow. So, here goes another day of my vacation....another quiet TV evening I think for us.
Friday, December 26, 2008
Boxing Day
Chrissy had to work today so we dropped her off because the snow is back and her car is still buried deep. My glasses were ready so we had no choice but to head to the insanity of the mall to pick them up.
WOW...can I ever see clearly. It did not take me much time to adjust to the progressive lenses and since I do so much reading it was wonderful to be able to read so well. It did cost a fortune. I am back to the eye specialist in February for more testing on my early signs of glaucoma due to abnormally high ocular pressure....however, its a good thing that the optometrist caught on early enough for maybe something to be done about it.
We had T & T boxed lunch this afternoon which was a nice change from the turkey and the other seasonal type of food. Caiti has to go home to Kelowna tomorrow as her work schedule beckons. A few more days off for me but just not motivated to get much done. My thoughts with Sharon at the moment...and hopefully something I can do for her...although I have not seen her or spoken to her in such a long time as she spent every possible moment the past few months with her mum in the hospital. Dinner...hmmm...what shall we have tonight?
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas

So now we are home settling in a for a quiet night at home...having chicken wings and caesars and chocolates.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Christmas Vacation

Thank goodness Kari is home for Christmas...just got word this morning...so her ordeal in hospital and her cruise vacation cut short, at least she she home now welcomed by the snowy weather.
Planning to cook my turkey tonight as opposed to tomorrow so that we can do nothing tomorrow! We had plan to go see Marley & Me since its opens tomorrow switching our traditional Christmas Eve movie to Christmas Day hence the switch in dinner plans.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Snowy Sunday afternoon

Sunday, December 14, 2008
Santa photos for the woggies

Here's Speedo, Sheba and Ben having their photo with Santa at Christina's work. It was quite a challenge getting all three to cooperate but they did it. Hopefully the photos from the actual photographer will look better than my quick stolen attempt.They are such a funny bunch of doggies and they have taken over the whole house and we are quite the doghouse!
For years we wanted to have a dog and we waited until we moved out of the condo so that we could and within 5 years we ended up with 3 of them. They are the best pets and they provide so much love and though they can be a lot of work and sometimes they restrict our freedom to go places but they are part of the family.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
The freeze
Caiti wrote her last exam but will work as much as she can before she heads home next week for Christmas and then back to work after Boxing Day.
Work has been a little stressful with some very tense times with the situation at hand. I do not envy Helga having to deal with things. My anniversary of moving down to Glen Pine is also coming up on Dec 24...how this entire year has flown by.
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Mammogram madness
It is December, already hitting mid-December and still nothing to celebrate as yet for Darcy ...it would be the best Christmas gift ever to be back on track but who knows. It will be a very quiet time for us...no conspicuous consumption, no splurges and festive frenzy. With the economic downturn, everyone is cutting back I would think.
So...a few special events at work and then time off to relax at home and do nothing. Caiti should be home on the 21st and at least we will all be together for a week or so. The Christmas lights are up outside and we still are in debate mode about a tree...we shall see.
Monday, November 24, 2008
My 45th birthday


On the way home we stopped at Fujiya for their awesome but cheap sushi rolls as a snack. Went to Costco to buy a hunk of beef so that I could make my own roast beef dinner and mashed potatoes.
Anyway...birthday wishes and all...I hope for a much better year...and it also has to be back to counting WW points...tomorrow!!!!
Now the christmas lights are also allowed to come on because it is a month to Christmas Eve...I hope that we get some good news so that it will not be such a bleak holiday season. We will still continue with our frugal budget but that has been good for us.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Day before my birthday
Rene invited us over for a Grey Cup/Pre-birthday party which was really nice of her. Terry had some people from his office and their wives over. It was nice to be invited out. Rene got me lots of Smirnoff ice. Darcy had fun playing snooker. Their new house is quite lovely and great for entertaining. There was a ton of appetizers, and lasagna, salads for dinner. As always, are a little too much so am now feeling quite bloated. Helga called to see if we would stop by for wine on the way home but Darcy didn't feel like it and I was quite agreeable to going home and changing into jammies and watching TV. It was nice of Rene to invite us and to want to do something for my birthday.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
My birthday weekend

Sunday, November 16, 2008
Municipal Elections
I was exhausted but Darcy had packed me cut up barbecued steak, mashed potatoes and steamed brocolli to eat enroute to city hall so I wasn't starved to death when I got home. It is such a long day and fine when its busy with voters but so boring when there is a lull. I brought a book to read but didn't even crack it open.
Today was a home day. Chrissy was at work by 9:30 a.m. We took all 3 dogs to Barnet Marine park and we even let Ben-Ben off-leash and all he did was chase after Speedo like a maniac. We then went to home depot to find a replacement part for the garburator under the kitchen sink that was leaking, and then we stopped at Costco for a few things. We shared a hot dog and a slice of pizza.
Doing bedding laundry and the dogs are all snoring away from their play time and walk. Darcy is fixing the kitchen sink and Chrissy doesn't get off until 6:00 p.m but she is going to Sheldon's for dinner as his gramma is visiting....so a quiet evening for us. I have tomorrow off from work so its a 2 day weekend but tomorrow I think I will try and do some housework and look to see what I can do to help Darcy out of his depressed state.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Remembrance Day
We are home now warming up and contemplating going to see Passchendale at the movies.
Speedo had his 5th birthday this week, and he didn't get to go to Buntzen as we were not feeling well to take him. Helga came home from Germany yesterday so there was lots to debrief. From now until my birthday and Christmas, time flies by and I have a lot of time off that is owing to me. Darcy is still plugging on and nothing has panned out as yet that suits him.
So, here's to the men and women in the past, the present and the future who have put their lives in jeopardy for our freedom. Here is also to the change in the USA with Barack Obama leading the way, and while expectations are so great for him, I believe he has the tenacity to make some momentous decisions for the better if only others will remember that it will take more than one term to see things transform.
Sometimes when we are so focused on our own tribulations we forget to recognize the global view.
Sunday, November 02, 2008
November
This week was Halloween...at Wings, at work and then on Friday giving out treats to all the kids in the neighbourhood. Chrissy was at work and Caiti came down (had to be picked up at 4am at the Greyhound Bus depot) for a party at UBC with Danie and Kirky. Friday was a particularly long day for me as we hosted a United Way Halloween Party for all city staff so I was at work at 6 am. We catered the breakfast so it was a lot of running around. I wore flannel PJs to work...
I gave out candy but that was pretty much all I could handle on Friday night for Halloween.
Yesterday, we went to a Celebration of Life for our friend Brett at the Alderson school gym. It was a great tribute to a much loved person. It was nice to see so many familiar faces from the old PMA crew and catch up on old news. 2010 will be PMA's 40th anniversary we were talked about what sort of party we would have for that celebration. There was a eulogy from Brett's long time best friend, tables full of memorabilia for all stages of his life, a powerpoint of photos, a live performance of "Here comes the sun" and we listened to a piece of melodious music from Star Trek of which Brett was a fan of. We all brought "deck food" so there was lots to eat and his mates brought all Pepsi products from his work before he left due to his illness. After this, we went to the John B pub with Caiti, Rene and Terry to catch up on other news.
When we got home I had to get a roast beef dinner on as Chrissy would be home after work with Sheldon and Jon for their Rockband party...Tulsi even came by so it was pretty rowdy over here last night. The roast beef dinner was awesome but I was too tired to really savour it.
Now its Sunday, and we are home...too wet to take down the Halloween decorations, another week ahead, the last week before Helga gets home from Germany.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
This week...
Brett made sure he lived his life to the fullest. Despite aggressive treatment, he weathered it all with a sense of humour. He would write newsy emails on how he was doing and what he was doing and he made sure he made the most with trips and adventures right up to the end. I had the pleasure of having Brett and Colleen become members at Glen Pine. I was glad to see him in the last little while still trying to be active even with his scooter and his oxygen tank in tow. I knew things were changing when Colleen called to say that Brett was not going to make it to the Book Club to do is presentation on the book they were reading. I am glad that I got to spend some time talking to him when he came to visit the centre. Meghan says they will plan a Celebration of Life which is what he would have wanted instead of a funeral service.
Helga also left for Germany a week before her planned trip as she got a call that her mum was in the hospital and possibly on her death bed too. This left her scrambling to catch a flight which she did on Wednesday afternoon. Her mum is 85, stricken with Alzheimers and really has seen her quality of life steadily decline in the last little while. For Helga, her passing would be very sad but a little relief from the worry of being so far away. I have not heard an update since Thursday.
I was debating about Halloween decorations or not, but finally decided that I would for the little kiddies and because its what we have always done. So while it was not raining, I got the lights and the decorations out.Plus Caiti is coming home next weekend so she will be happy that life at home is the same. Chrissy has been working steadily her 35+ hours a week and taking on an online/correspondence course in Biology to prep herself for a comeback to school when the time comes around.
The dogs are all good...all 3 of them. Sometimes I wish we only had just one but they are all good dogs with their own personalities.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Thanksgiving Weekend
On Thursday we had a Thanksgiving Themed Lunch at Glen Pine with entertainment to follow. It was very well attended and the singing after enjoyed by all....it was oldies that the seniors love and grew up with.
Darcy had testing at HR on Friday morning so I went to work for half the day because on Monday I worked a 12 hour day. So on the way home, we decided to buy a smaller turkey and have a mini-turkey dinner that would be ready when Chrissy got home from work. On Saturday, we lounged around the house and later in the afternoon went out for some errands and to get the ingredients for the infamous Cheesecake that Darcy was bringing to Connie's on Sunday.
On Sunday, we did absolutely nothing until we had to leave for Connie's around 5pm. Madga's parents were invited and Chrissy and Sheldon joined us after she was done work but still in time for Thanksgiving dinner. So today is another day off to read up the DRO manual for tomorrow's long day working for Elections Canada. Took my EDO day to work. Darcy is also doing a poll and as always Sharon is our supervisor over at Seaview. It will be like a 15 hour day so we need to pack food and be prepared for it. I always enjoy this stint as there is something good about exercising this democratic right and enabling others to make the vote.
Caiti is not home and Chrissy worked Sunday and today so it was not like any Thanksgiving past. It has been difficult to think of things to be thankful for at this time because everything seems to have been such a challenge so far. I just want things to get back to normal and me not having to feel like I am bearing the burden of everything. Chrissy bought the dogs a special Thanksgiving in a can din-din and they never get that sort of food ever but they if anything have enjoyed Darcy being around for them much more than usual.
Anyway...it is rainy today and thats ok with me. I have indoor things to do.
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Quiet few hours
This morning was a little dramatic. Sheldon and Jon came by as Sheldon left his dress shoes in Chrissy's car which was parked blocking Darcy...they took off with her keys so she could not move her car to let us out or to get herself to work. We were supposed to drive out to UBC to pick up Caiti who was out there partying and celebrating Danies' 21st birthday. Luckily...Caiti left her car keys in her room. So off we went to pick her up, then to Canada Place to pick up keys from Sheldon and Jon from the Cruise Ship Terminals. Chrissy ended up taking the bus to work. Now I have a few hours of quiet time...to do laundry.
This week ahead is pretty busy again. My eyes are a little wonky so I must try and make an appointment to see the optometrist. We also have dentist appointments on Saturday and we need to look into some bridgework for me too. Just falling apart a little with the stress and working the 2 jobs back to back...3 nights a week is a little too hard on this aging person.
Friday, September 19, 2008
So glad its Friday!
Anyway...let me het through today and then try and regroup over the weekend!!!
Sunday, September 07, 2008
September is sunny!
On Saturday I went out to dinner with Kari and then we went to see Mamma Mia. I completely enjoyed that movie. It was uplifting and fun...even though Pierce is great to look at but he sure can't sing...I would go and see this movie again.
Plus Kari gave me some assorted shoes that I was thrilled with seeing how the budget is so tight at the moment that it was really a nice treat.
This evening we went to Red Robinson for an Al Green Concert...it was pretty good. Sharon and Tino came along as did Connie and Dave plus Helga, Roy, Tom and Starr. He was pretty soulful and it was a short concert but great sound as always!
So another week begins....and it looks like it will be pretty hectic because Wings starts up on Tuesday evening...and here I go again working 3 nights a week,
Monday, September 01, 2008
Labour Day!
Anyway...so no back to school shopping...no crazy schedules...freedom from that at last. Most exciting, John and Tracy welcomed a little Chelsea Anne Geary...finally a girl to their clan so the first of friends to have grandkids! The baby pics were very sweet.
I am glad it will be a short week...but then its also been crazy wings work and that starts up on the 9th!
Sunday, August 17, 2008
A week plus of solitude
Anyway...thunder storm and rain today but still extremely warm and humid. The summer is just about over and I really have not done anything significant or fun except go to work daily.
Friday, August 08, 2008
Love the Olympics!

I must confess I could not sleep so I was up at 4:30 a.m and watched the opening ceremonies live; but sort of snoozed a little. However, got to work early to find our entire system was down so we had no choice but to watch TV in the Hub. What a spectacle...such artisty and synchronicity. It would be tough to match this event. Nothing was held back in the magnitude and the scope of this celebration. I like to watch the Malaysian team come in, songkok's and golden national dress and sarongs. I have always been an Olympics junkie and just enjoy all the events. We might have thought once we would be sharing in this experience but there's nothing wrong in supporting a dream once upon a time. I plan to watch as much as I can. At work I created an Olympic spirit promotion to get our members excited about the whole universal and multicultural aspect of the games...we have a large world map with flag pins to mark birth places, a poll about favourite sports to watch and a medal count contest. I even had an Olympics venue bus trip to Whistler take place today.
Anyway...wanted to make sure that I posted on this auspicious day.
Monday, August 04, 2008
BC Day long weekend and Regionals

It was also our 23rd wedding anniversary on Aug 3...no we didn't celebrate but we did a very bad thing and bought a huge bucket of KFC chicken as we were too tired to cook or eat healthy. That is so awful...to eat all that fried chicken and then felt so gross after...Today we can't do much until all the entries are entered for Provincials. Already we are having some issues since the file give to us was corrupted and Rosemary and Frank are not in the office.
Anyway, time to get some laundry done and figure out where to start to tidy up the mess of a house that we have.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Cait's quick visit home
Darcy dropped me off at Sharon's at 11:30 a.m as she was hosting a special luncheon for the seniors who volunteer at Dogwood who have helped her out for the last 10 weeks. Wow! It was like a gourmet feast out of Bon Apetit magazine. It was just an incredible spread of summer fresh food from pasta to salads and roasted vegetables and apricot cheesecake. She also made pitchers of the most delicious sangria. I have not seen everyone in ages so it was so much fun chatting with all the ladies...they are a fun bunch of old gals! They brought Sharon some beautiful flower arrangements from their own gardens. 
We were going to the fireworks but my back was killing me and it caused a great pain all down my side to my foot so I decided to bail. We ended up having a light supper withy Caiti, Chrissy had a temper tantrum and went to the fireworks anyway. We watched a couple of movies we had taped on the PVR...so easy to get back-logged with stuff to watch.
This morning, I was first up and made a pot of lamb curry for Caiti to take home. We decided to go for a later lunch at the re-opened Moderne Burger Diner down in Kits...love that place...awesome diner decor and great milkshakes. First we stopped at Metrotown as Caiti wanted to use an Old Navy gift card. When we got there, I realized I had no wallet...thank goodness for a daughter who could pay for things! I wasn't sure if it had dropped out when I was locking the door so we went all the way home...but I guess I had left it out on the chair in the dining room. Well, we headed back out then again for our burger lunch. We were so stuffed and full. So we got home and were going to laze around when Caiti got a call got work and so decided to get on the road back to Kelowna.
We like it when she comes home...when we were at London Drugs getting allergy stuff and creams she was so knowledgeable on the products.Anyway, another weekend gone. Short week ahead for me as I have an EDO day on friday before the long weekend and its also Regionals so helping Darcy with that meet for the weekend coming up.
The flowers above was one of the arrangements made for Sharon.
If I was wealthy I would have fresh flowers in every room that I owned including bathrooms!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
A weekend of nothing
Caiti is a little stressed out. She started her practicum but hates her living arrangements at the moment because Al (James friend who owns the place) is being really mean and...so she has given her own notice and is looking for a place to live on her own.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Shark Weekend

We came home and I lounged on the couch watching TV...we watched mindless Miss Universe contest and that was another weekend come and gone. We are having a really late dinner tonight as we watch the Blue man band on HDnet that Darcy had recorded. July is now almost half over too....wow...So this week we did go see another movie "Wanted" with Angelina Jolie, James MacAvoy and Morgan Freeman. It was action-packed and interesting. I really want to go and see "Mamma Mia" next weekend!!! I just have one more of those cineplex passes so that has helped us with some entertainment.
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Jewel- Solo and Acoustic at Red Robinson

Thursday, July 03, 2008
Mrs. Bishop's Retirement Party
Mrs. Bishop is on the left... with Mrs. Stanley and Mrs. Santone.15 years ago, Caiti started Kindergarten at College Park and here new teacher was Mrs. Bishop. She was a little older starting out in her career having gone through a divorce and was up for a new challenge...taking on these little kids all ready to learn. Caiti adored Mrs. B and she loved the Summer Memories Project they did the first week they started school. It was an extremely great year for Caiti as she learned how to read and write and such a solid foundation.

d a great many younger parents from more recent years. Today was a little humid and hazy as we got some drizzle over night but even though it was a short week it seemed like a normal one so thank goodness its Friday tomorrow. I need to really try and clear off this dining room table as it is so full of clutter that needs to be removed.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Happy Canada Day!


I actually had 4 days off and here it is all gone and really have nothing to show for it. My neck and ridge along the shoulder has been killing me and I was hoping that the pain would have gone away by the time I was heading back to work tomorrow.
On Monday, Darcy and I went to watch Ironman to escape from the heat. He really wanted to see this movie so I went along because any movie on the big screen with air-conditioning is a lovely afternoon. Ate movie popcorn and drank pop...so much for my WW points.
And then today....spent the morning getting organized for my summer Wings workplan and getting an upgrade installed for the Clublink program. Went to Sears to exchange a few items and then home and an evening of quiet. Darcy has been working on de-cluttering and we are slowly cleaning up and getting ourselves a little less full of stuff. We really have too much junk and clutter and we just need to simplify our lives.
Anyway...the summer weather will stick around for a while and hopefully this summer will result in good things for us.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Last night at Wings

Sunday, June 22, 2008
Greek Day at Kits


We listened to Premier Gordon Campbell (in the pink shirt) and Mayor Sam Sullivan (guy in wheelchair) give their usual public speeches (see photo). It was a fun way to enjoy a summer day just the two of us and we will be doing this on Sundays with my transit pass. We took the bus back to Granville Station, and back on the skytrain.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Commencement 2008
It was ...thank goodness...a sunny day. It would have been awful for all those grads in the caps and gowns congregating on the Granville street entrance of the Orpheum Theatre to get drenched. We got there just before 6pm and the line-up had already stretched down the block but we still got the seats we wanted on the balcony where we sat for Caiti's commencement. Finally, this day came and is over! Chrissy fussed about the cap and gown. She did get her hair done again. I liked the speech by Iain Black, not too fussed about the rest and completely enjoyed the valedictorian address -the funny thing was the book he read out was the same book that Auntie Connie who also came this evening gave to Christina when she was first learning how to read. It was actually nice sitting up in the balcony and watching the grads go by, one at a time. There was really not much opportunity for photos after the event. We were all so starved so we headed to Tanpopo for late-night sushi. Ate too much and then it sat in the tummy all night.Anyway, this marks the end of the public school system for us for now. Now we hope that real life will come into play and Chrissy will find her way to the best of her abilities. She frustrates us so much at times, we hope she does make some decisions and moves on ahead and forward on her own steam since does have some issues with this.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Lonestar Concert at Red Robinson

We have seen two free shows this week which was awesome!!! Now, in jammies waiting for Chrissy to get home. Today was the last day of school, and tomorrow is Commencement so once that is done then its all finished for us with children in the school system....thank goodness!!!!
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Corteo -Cirque du soleil was awesome!

What an amazing evening on the opening, full dress rehearsal of Corteo...free tickets in seats that tomorrow someone would sit in the same seat paying $125. I have always wanted to go to a Cirque du soleil performance, and this was as close to the stage as anyone could be, and it was stunning. Darcy and I went with Chrissy, and her friends Rita and JJ. The music was wonderful, the acrobatics and gymnastics were breath-taking...a nice way to spend an evening.
I am so glad that we went and I switched work days with Karen so that I could go. I am looking at the website and my hunch was right...almost the entire cast have eastern european, russian-like names. It was so chilly but thank goodness inside the big top it was pretty warm.
The weather has really been cold and wet and does not feel like summer time at all. Just wanted to make note of a spectacular show.
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Transit outing
I am on the transit pass program at work and on Sundays and holidays I can take one adult and up to 4 children on the bus, skytrain or seabus anyway on the Lower Mainland. We never tried to use it before but today Darcy and I did. We parked at the Holdom station and then off we went first we switched at Commercial to the Expo line and got off at Granville. Walked around and ate some pizza slices. Then we walked down to Canada Place and caught the seabus across the water to Lonsdale Quay in North Vancouver...see the photos from the seabus. We walked around the market and then we came back across back to Canada Place and on the skytrain to Stadium station where we walked over to Tinseltown to watch a movie called the Children Of Huang Shi with handsome Jonathan Rhys Meyer, Chow Yun Fatt, Michelle Yeoh and Radha Mitchell. We enjoyed the tale of dedication and based on a true story it was great. Then we took the skytrain back and took us all of 15 minutes to get back to our car at Holdom. It was a nice way to spend the afternoon.
It has been a rough few days for me. My sisters all called and I just found out that my dad never told my Mum about what had happened to the girls until a few days ago. All along I thought he had spoken to her and that her way of being supportive was to not speak of it now that the girls are moving ahead and holding up so well. Needless to say, it has quite emotionally draining. I do need to make a visit home and I would like to go but am afraid of the difficulties that will come about. My dad has pretty much isolated me from everything because of his inability to come to terms with the traumatic news. As my sister Joce said...everyone needs to move forward and let the past behind...of course easier said than done. I need to work out my passport and see when I can make this trip home. Life has not been easy for me...I know that!Saturday, May 31, 2008
Dr. Henry Jones

This was a tough week to recover from last weekend. It was so busy at work that I felt like I was in overdrive all week. I did have yesterday off as my EDO and it just went by in a flash. Darcy and I went to the dykes out by Minnekhada for a walk with the dogs...then we came home and just lounged around all evening. Today, it was still really nice weather-wise so I was up with Speedo and we did our usual Glenayre loop for a wonderful 80 minute walk. I am glad I did since we went to the movies in the afternoon and I had movie popcorn. Tonight I am making a low-fat high fibre lean turkey chili. I had a good WI this week but am still disappointed to have only lost just over 6 pounds since we started our WW@work. Guess its better than nothing at all. Have to stay focused and stay on track. Next week, we have an invitation to Awards night at the school so not sure what Chrissy has accomplished but we are pleased anyway whatever it may be. Then I got dress rehearsal tickets for Cirque de soleil that I would like to go to. Darcy is still waiting for some news so we wait with bated breath. It is now June...we went on Wednesday to assist with the PMA Time Trials and I did the office, well some semblance of office with Andrea and Joni which was fun because we got it a great visit! It is the Coq. A/B meet and Darcy planned to drop in tomorrow just to say hello. It is now a few seasons since we had to be up at the crack of dawn for warm-ups and all that...can't say I miss that too too much but still we will stop by and smell the chlorine a little!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Grad weekend is over!

Slept until 10:00 as best as I could but Caiti was planning on driving back to Kelowna so she could sleep again before her night shift. She has since arrive home so we are glad she was safe. We took Chrissy out to a new for us malaysian restaurant called Tamarind Hill in New West for lunch as she is not going camping...already she has had text messages from friends about kids being so drunk they were already barfing so she wants to stay away from it all and I am very glad for this decision. As much as I want her to fit in socially...this is one advenure I don't mind her missing out on. So this was grad weekend...expensive and pricey but worth it for memories I hope and thank goodness for digital photos!!! Darcy took over 200, I did 150 and Chrissy had her camera too. Posted some on facebook for family and friends to view a sampling.
Friday, May 23, 2008
Countdown to Graduation
Caiti and I was at the school from 4;30 p.m...hauled tables, did everything we could until my feet were also sore from all that running around. We left around 8 as I still had to buy poster board to write out all the list of prizes and make up some more certificates and such. The registration desk area is all set to go as I printed and laminated the signage at work this morning. It was good that everyone knew what we were working on and just came together. Darcy made a wonderful roast chicken and it was almost 10 by the time Caiti and I sat down to eat.
Now the girls have gone out with Jon and a few friends to Joey Tomatoes for Bellini's and some quiet time for us.
Tomorrow...part of me is looking forward it to being over....
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Happy Birthday Queen Victoria!
Started out the long weekend with a good 1.5 hour walk with Speedo first thing in the morning. Did my first College Park and Glenayre look for this first time in ages. Got home and Darcy was just getting out of bed. We went for lunch and some small Chinese Restaurant and it was so MSG-laden we were suffering all afternoon. Went to Uprising bread to get bread and then off to T & T for chinese groceries. For good karma we donated to the China earthquake fund.
This was going to be an extremely busy aftergrad workload day. I had made up the Grand Prize Draw tickets and all the numbers on labels for all the prizes that needed to be organized, wrapped and listed with values. I also sent to printing those little draw tickets that had to be cut up and that was the most tedious job ever. I brought home the skookum paper-cutter from work and that was a godsend. Anyway, Sharon was hosting a worker-bee for the prizes and this was the best opportunity to collate the full list that Nadine wanted me to send to Anne Fabbi this weekend for the gaming license to run the casino games.
Anyway...started at 5pm and did not quit until 11:00 p.m. Had a very quick dinner break as Darcy and Tino BBQed for everyone. It was intense and by the time all was cleaned up and we headed home by midnight. In value just over $17, 300 to give away and 116 little jars for the kids to stuff with those little tickets. I am glad its the last time I do this but already Andre has already asked me to help out when his turn comes.
This morning...was going to go for a walk but then we got side-tracked so I did my window-box gardening and Darcy is cleaning Walter and fixing for him to get sold..he needs to go...must go. Darcy invited Ryan and Robbie over for BBQ - chicken. Chrissy works at Bosleys a full day today but we really have not seen too much of her this past week.Anyway...off to enjoy more of outside...glad we still have tomorrow off as I haven't tackled laundry yet for this week!!!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Mummy's day...
I did go for a nice walk for an hour on my own...the entire College Park loop which was good seeing how I have done poorly eating this past 3-4 days...
I had to drop off the Walking program kits to Dogwood and then we drove out to spend the afternoon at Terry and Rene's new home in Maple Ridge...what a lovely spacious home. The finished the renovations so it looks fabulous and even had an interior designer do all the colours and the decor and the furniture. The house is HUGE sort of like a Helga-type home. In the gigantic basement they bought a pool table with a bar area and all. HD Tvs on both floors and hardwood flooring through-out. The girls are still at the old townhouse and will move out when they succeed in selling the place. Once Darcy gets into his new career, we must start contemplating moving into some spaciousness where we can entertain but most of all eliminate all the clutter that we have accumulated. I had to attend that 3 hour workshop last week at City Hall...the time is now to get going on it. We had a nice visit knowing that we won't see too much of each other with this move but not that we did when they were in Coquitlam either.
Chrissy met up with us at the White Spot for dinner and such was my Mother's Day. We don't do gifts as both girls are on their own for alot of their expenses...I am content with a phone call or some time spent.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
So glad its the weekend
Last night we had our first Pub Night and we feature that handsome Tony Prophet and the Mid-
life crisis band...we bought tickets and I wasn't supposed to be officially working but Heather and I and Joanne could not help but do our share. The band was AWESOME...played all the music we could really dance to and we knew all the lyrics too as well...CCR, Beatles, Elvis, eagles, beach boys, Bob Seger etc...it was so much fun. Terry and Rene came out and responded to my invitation for a fun night out. Where can you have a bar serving cheap booze, a wonderful meal catered by our Food Services in a brand new banquet hall and dance dance dance. Poor Darcy couldn't get up and boogie because we had some clothing malfunction which required the use of duct tape on his rear end but it really should not have mattered. I had a great time...and here is a photo of me,
Joanne, Heather and Helga (the Glen Pine crew partying away at work while we are off work -shows you how much we love being there!!!) I put together a baby boomer trivia quiz for each table to work on...there were prizes. Our next Pub Night will be Glen Pine Idol night!So, today I went to Move for Health Day and we kicked-off our "Every step counts" Campaign as part of the whole Active Coquitlam initiative. In the afternoon, I had to go to the Burquitlam Funeral Home for Ruth Bull's celebration of life. Frank was pleased to see such a turn-out from all of us at leisure & parks as support. They had a whole life-time love story and she died just weeks away from their 64th wedding anniversary...there was an article in the local paper in February for Valentine's Day on how they met and how they stay so deeply in love...it was very touching and her loss will be so huge for him but he has his family surrounding him. It was suprising but there was no service, just a get together of friends and family just in the room beside the chapel.
After we went and got Chrissy's shoes and clutch for grad...don't want to mention the fiasco of the dress drama which hopefully be rectified this coming week...grr...so mad I cannot even begin to write about it. Put it this way, the dress manufacturer's messed up and sent the wrong size when measurements were correct and should have been loose as weight has been lost but it was 2 sizes too small! I really am looking forward to this being over...even the the whole aftergrad is bogging me down and perhaps I should have just sat back and let other parents step forward since I did my bit 2 years ago. The only good thing about Grad for Chrissy is being done with High School and on her way to other things (good I can only hope and pray).
Caiti is back in Kelowna...wonder if she will call or text tomorrow for Mother's Day.
Had a good weigh-in this week but yesterday and today were very poor eating days so I must get back on track better the rest of this week or else!!!!
Friday, May 02, 2008
A day off
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Another week ahead
Today it was rainy so we didn't got for a walk. We went to Crystal Mall and bought Chinese baked goodies and then came home for a quiet evening. Cait and Chrissy went to the movies with Jon and Jake which was nice for them. Chrissy worked a full day at Bosley's today and said that she would be working again tomorrow from 3-7pm. Another Sunday and its back to work again in the morning!
Friday, April 25, 2008
So glad its Friday
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Back to Weight Watchers
It has been a really rough week. So busy at work and a little stressed. We have the Volunteer Appreciation event coming up on Tuesday and Helga has us singing an improvised Beatles song so we are calling ourselves the Glen Pine Beetles so I need to find us some antennaes for us to wear. We had such a laugh practising for it today. Anyway...at wings and then home and thank goodness its Friday tomorrow but it is also the first day of registrations!!
Sunday, April 20, 2008
We walked and walked!
We stopped by to see Chrissy at her new job at Bosley's Pet Food store. Then we went to T & T to buy ingredients for me to cook noodles for dinner.
Now Darcy and the dogs are snoozing on the couch. I have to get some laundry done and enjoy the rest of Sunday evening!!!
After the snow comes the sun
What a beautiful day today...after the chilly cold wintery weather comes the sunshine and spring time. Yesterday, Heather and I went to work on our own time to help with the Seniors and their garage sale. I also went to deal with my ever-growing line-dancing program that has grown to crazy proportions. It was so busy! Mayor Maxine came they do love her! After Darcy picked me up we went to Uncle Weng's where I had veggie curry on rice. Heather and I started WW at work that Andrea got organized and we are determined that we are going to try our best to stay on track...but I already blew all my flex points on Friday night up at Sharon's with the wine and the appies...grrr...sabotaged again!!! After lunch we did take Speedo and Sheba for a 1.5 hour walk along the dykes in Poco. The wind was chilling but it was sunny and so refreshing really. Chrissy had a pile of friends over but they were upstairs. We watched a good movie version of Les Miserables with Liam Neeson and Geoffrey Rush. Other than that not much else on the news front. Caiti picked up some shifts at work but since she has not had any confirmation yet about her practicum she is staying on in Kelowna to work as much as she can. Her finals are over and she is done 2nd year!Just waiting for Darcy to have his shower so we can head out for a little while just to get out of the house.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
A very slow weekend
We drove up to Kelowna yesterday for Caiti's birthday and also to bring home as much of her stuff as we could. She has 2 more exams and then she will be home for her practicum which will be at Eagle Ridge Hospital...we hope! This means she will be home for now and then after June 12 she finds out if she has a placement with Fraserhealth for the rest of the summer as an undergrad nurse or she will return back to Kelowna to work at Hawthorne. It was a beautiful day for the drive and it was very nice in the Rav. It was a big day as we also officially made Caiti the owner of the Honda...so now she owns her own car and is completely responsible for her own insurance and so forth...a big step on the road to independance and adulthood.Friday, April 11, 2008
Cait's 20th Birthday
Today is Caiti's 20th birthday...now that is very hard to believe that we have a 20 year old. Hoping that she has a nice day. Texted her a message in the morning and then we called her before she was heading off with friends.Not much news to really share. Not much else except work and worry about things too much. Blood pressure has hit a bit of a high but its all good. Haven't read my Oprah book lately so not making any new awakening changes!
Tomorrow we are going up to bring home Caiti's belongings as she prepares to hit home for the summer. If it all works out she will be at Eagle Ridge Hospital and doing some undergrad nursing for Fraserhealth and able to save some money for school by living at home.

